tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-144474582024-03-13T07:56:29.185+08:00FragmentsApart from the known and the unknown, what else is there? - Harold PinterLottiePhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15464376197679468718noreply@blogger.comBlogger521125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14447458.post-58869324117497030562016-03-06T13:44:00.001+08:002016-03-06T13:45:31.897+08:00Borrowed Love Poems<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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What can I do, I have dreamed of you so much<br />
What can I do, lost as I am in the sky</div>
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What can I do, now that all<br />
the doors and windows are open</div>
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I will whisper this in your ear<br />
as if it were a rough draft</div>
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something I scribbled on a napkin<br />
I have dreamed of you so much</div>
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there is no time left to write<br />
no time left on the sundial</div>
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for my shadow to fall back to earth<br />
lost as I am in the sky</div>
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What can I do, all the years that we talked<br />
and I was afraid to want more</div>
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What can I do, now that these hours<br />
belong to neither you nor me</div>
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Lost as I am in the sky<br />
What can I do, now that I cannot find</div>
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the words I need<br />
when your hair is mine</div>
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now that there is no time to sleep<br />
now that your name is not enough</div>
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What can I do, if a red meteor wakes the earth<br />
and the color of robbery is in the air</div>
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Now that I dream of you so much<br />
my lips are like clouds</div>
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drifting above the shadow of one who is asleep<br />
Now that the moon is enthralled with a wall</div>
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What can I do, if one of us is lying on the earth<br />
and the other is lost in the sky</div>
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What can I do, lost as I am in the wind<br />
and lightning that surrounds you</div>
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What can I do, now that my tears<br />
are rising toward the sky</div>
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only to fall back<br />
into the sea again</div>
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What can I do, now that this page is wet<br />
now that this pen is empty</div>
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5.</div>
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What can I do, now that the sky<br />
has shut its iron door</div>
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and bolted clouds<br />
to the back of the moon</div>
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now that the wind<br />
has diverted the ocean's attention</div>
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now that a red meteor<br />
has plunged into the lake</div>
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now that I am awake<br />
now that you have closed the book</div>
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6.</div>
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Now that the sky is green<br />
and the air is red with rain</div>
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I never stood in<br />
the shadow of pyramids</div>
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I never walked from village to village<br />
in search of fragments</div>
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that had fallen to earth in another age<br />
What can I do, now that we have collided</div>
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on a cloudless night<br />
and sparks rise</div>
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from the bottom of a thousand lakes</div>
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7.</div>
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To some, the winter sky is a blue peach<br />
teeming with worms</div>
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and the clouds are growing thick<br />
with sour milk</div>
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What can I do, now that the fat black sea<br />
is seething</div>
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now that I have refused to return<br />
my borrowed dust to the butterflies</div>
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their wings full of yellow flour</div>
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8.</div>
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What can I do, I never believed happiness<br />
could be premeditated</div>
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What can I do, having argued with the obedient world<br />
that language will infiltrate its walls</div>
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What can I do, now that I have sent you<br />
a necklace of dead dried bees</div>
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and now that I want to<br />
be like the necklace</div>
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and turn flowers into red candles<br />
pouring from the sun</div>
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9.</div>
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What can I do, now that I have spent my life<br />
studying the physics of good-bye</div>
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every velocity and particle in all the waves<br />
undulating through the relapse of a moment's fission</div>
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now that I must surrender this violin<br />
to the sea's foaming black tongue</div>
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now that January is almost here<br />
and I have started celebrating a completely different life</div>
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10.</div>
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Now that the seven wonders of the night<br />
have been stolen by history</div>
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Now that the sky is lost and the stars<br />
have slipped into a book</div>
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Now that the moon is boiling<br />
like the blood where it swims</div>
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Now that there are no blossoms left<br />
to glue to the sky</div>
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What can I do, I who never invented<br />
anything</div>
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and who dreamed of you so much<br />
I was amazed to discover</div>
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the claw marks of those<br />
who preceded us across this burning floor</div>
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<b>John Yau</b></div>
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LottiePhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15464376197679468718noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14447458.post-85778384080497272842016-01-14T18:43:00.000+08:002016-01-14T19:56:25.179+08:00At the centre of it all<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span style="color: #222222; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-AU;">My boyfriend at university, John, said to me “one day you’ll meet someone who loves music as much as you do”. I did, and of course he is a Bowie fan, having been so even through the darkest days of (unfairly) critically-panned Tin Machine, subsequent drum’n’bass experiments, and Outside. In our house Bowie was always playing. We agreed upon Bowie’s genius so many times on listening to so many different songs. We were excited by his mysterious reappearance with “The Next Day” and the wonderful and mournful “Where Are We now?” with its accompanying low-key but undeniably moving video. We were incredibly excited about Blackstar and watched the weird, compulsive, addictive video for the title track many times. The words of that song (the title of this post) have been going around my head in the last few days. I awoke thinking of them and feeling sad.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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LottiePhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15464376197679468718noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14447458.post-46691928913559005292015-09-26T19:48:00.004+08:002015-09-26T19:49:39.315+08:00Temps perdu<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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One summer, in the 1970s, we nearly moved to France. A friend of my parents, Paul Brown (catchphrase: "how extraordinary!"), had bought a ruined château, <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ch%C3%A2teau_d%27Usson">Château d'Usson</a>, in the Pyrenees, and fancied - and it does seem fanciful - that he would restore the château and start an artists' community there, with my parents as the first artists.<br />
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We travelled to France in the car, with a clandestine £400 of Paul's money hidden in the glove compartment, it being forbidden at that time to take such large sums of money across borders. I'd just read <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Silver_Sword">The Silver Sword</a> and this gave me terrifying visions of arrest and incarceration for breaking the law. Then we spent a hot, beautiful summer there, camping on the hillside, which was long enough for my parents to realise that the enterprise was doomed, and for us to learn about blueberries and lizards, and to meet the locals who must have regarded us with considerable suspicion, but who seemed friendly, especially an old man who drove an ox-cart; and to build, with Sije (Paul's girlfriend, an energetic Dutchwoman much younger than him), a house made of grass sods - which once built crawled with ants and was uninhabitable.<br />
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Paul's utopian dream never came together and not long after we left at the end of that summer, he split with Sije and moved back to the UK to a converted mill in Yorkshire near <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Silver_Sword">Aysgarth Falls</a>. The château is still described as ruined: clearly nothing was ever built there. Even though this experience was, at the time, overlaid with a fear of the unknown and of the sheer recklessness of the idea of leaving everything behind to live in France, it remains in my memory as an idyllic, happy summer.<br />
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John Wyndham wrote a short story, <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Random_Quest">Random Quest</a>, about a parallel universe created by a science experiment where the world has diverged and certain things that happened in one universe never happened in the other. Remembering Château d' Usson, a place that looms large in my memories of my childhood, I think of myself in the parallel universe where my parents stayed at the end of the summer and we went to local schools and became, essentially, French. I'm still living in the mountains with dozens of children and my skin is as brown and wrinkled as a walnut.</div>
LottiePhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15464376197679468718noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14447458.post-41977558545400326262015-06-14T15:35:00.002+08:002015-06-14T15:35:36.865+08:00We hear the playback and it seems so long ago<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Max, who has very clear ideas about what he likes to listen to, asked for "Video Killed the Radio Star" and I was prompted by that to listen to the Buggles' first album, The Age of Plastic, and muse about Trevor Horn and what an unloved visionary he seems to have been. My sister and I bought this album together in 1980 and, as we did with every precious record we bought, listened to it repeatedly. Listening to it now the songs are prescient but also incredibly sad - particularly "Elstree", which was Claire's favourite and always makes me think of her. ("Video Killed the Radio Star" sounds a little trite to me now, but maybe I've just heard it once too often.)<br />
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Working for the BBC may actually be a pretty decent job - I know at least one person who works there and is considered highly successful by everyone else we know - but there is something elegiac about this song.<br />
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I think of Trevor Horn as being in the category of people whose fame and consequent wealth brought them strange tragedy, not least by changing their lifestyles and/or political views - Rik Mayall and his quad bike; Bryan Ferry and his terrible reactionary children - but Trevor's tragedy was stranger than most: his son shot Trevor's wife, Jill Sinclair, with an air gun in 1994 and she died 8 years later, without ever speaking again.</div>
LottiePhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15464376197679468718noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14447458.post-13249897647962203292015-03-25T18:56:00.000+08:002015-03-25T18:57:21.542+08:00Whatever hope is yours<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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I thought of these words this morning as I cycled past the University of Melbourne campus – something about the open bay windows of the well-appointed Victorian buildings of whatever Faculty it was reminded me very strongly of Glasgow and my first year there as an undergraduate (shown above, the School of Law). The poem is about war and the pity of war, but those lines are about the power of youth, if you can only grasp it.<u></u></div>
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I didn’t get the most out of university by any stretch – I lacked the confidence which age, or background, or a certain type of school can give you – and I didn’t do any of the things that were open to me and that I actually longed to do: write for the university newspaper, join the History Society, take up fencing and rowing, because I didn't dare. I clearly remember the sense of being an outsider staring through a window at something I had no right to be part of – a feeling that returned to me for a moment, in distilled form, this morning.<u></u><u></u></div>
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What is very clear to me is that background and schooling play an essential role in equipping children with confidence to go out into the world. Many of my classmates were from families of lawyers. They’d gone to certain Glasgow schools (out of 120, 15 from the same private school). While, after a couple of years, they may have begun to see this as a disadvantage of sorts, as those of us who came alone had to make friends and probably had a more interesting time of it in the end, at first it was a clear clique and another way for those of us with no connection to the law and to each other to feel excluded. I didn’t have any connections to follow up for internships in my first summer break; I didn’t have the money to go away to Europe on holiday as many did; I didn’t even know how to write a CV (I cringe to remember that my very first CV was handwritten). I spent time with a tiny group of friends and my boyfriend. I moved in small circles.<u></u><u></u></div>
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My memories of this time are one reason why I’ve endowed a scholarship at the law school for a student from a disadvantaged background. A really important part of this is the offer of mentoring: on the assumption that without the patrician background, someone like me would be starting out with absolutely no knowledge of how to operate in the university environment. A wealthy background and an education that is paid for gift the recipient with much more than just education – there’s also a much better awareness of how to work the system. When people attack the idea of quotas for disadvantaged students they seem to be unaware of this: the real impact of “disadvantage” is not just measured in wealth but in confidence.<u></u><u></u></div>
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LottiePhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15464376197679468718noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14447458.post-38815701385219654982015-03-08T19:19:00.000+08:002015-03-08T20:15:48.790+08:00The really useful crew<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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When I first saw this video cruelly skewering the pretensions of underpass Goths, I was of course tempted to react with amused contempt. I hate Goths; who doesn't? People used to accuse me of being a Goth and I loathed that. Those po-faced, self-important, whey-faced losers! The style has remained amazingly unchanged for the last 30 years: the I-feel-so-sorry-for-myself pout, the over-egged black-is-how-I-feel-on-the-inside melodrama, the black lipstick, the stack heels ... Particularly in this clip, despite some decidedly non-canon outfits (neon? White?), the self-importance is quite overpowering. What's not to dislike? On the principle that the best way to attack someone is not to attack them, but to make fun of them, what better than a humiliating soundtrack comprising the theme fromThomas the Tank Engine to accompany their earnest, yet supremely self-conscious bopping?<br />
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But on reflection, I couldn't help feeling a bit sorry for them. A bunch of misfits, universally execrated wretches, chronically misunderstood, a cohort of loners and losers, having a bit of fun the only way they know how and expressing their feelings of angst under a bridge... Not really harming anyone, and maybe my contempt is just another version of the bullying they have experienced all their lives?<br />
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(Not you, Marilyn Manson - you saw all that and you wanted to make money out of pretending to be part of it.)<br />
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Maybe my contempt is just another manifestation of the epidemic of hate and polarisation that the Internet amplifies. So I have thought better of it. There are worse ways to spend your time - maybe "being in a gang called the Disciples, high on crack and toting a machine gun".<br />
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I've got to comment from a purely aesthetic point of view, however - that really is taking the concept of "dancing" and making it into something ugly.<br />
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LottiePhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15464376197679468718noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14447458.post-7578828541485566952015-02-07T17:10:00.000+08:002015-02-07T17:10:10.776+08:00O whistle and I’ll come to you, my lad<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span lang="EN-US">My daily cycle route takes me along a cycle path for about 3km, then through a park for another 2km, on a very safe, wide road with a marked cycle path. Often I’m in a good mood: the sun is shining, the trees are green, I have a happy home life, and work is usually going well. On this occasion I was whistling to myself as I cycled along. At the lights, a cyclist in front of me (young-ish, dark haired, wearing one of those German infantry cycle helmets) turned around and gave me what I subsequently realized was a Hard Stare. I said “Good morning!” and thought no more of it. The lights changed, she cycled ahead and I continued to cycle along whistling to myself. At the next lights, however, she turned round and we had the following exchange:</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US">Me: “When you get to work and tell your colleagues about this encounter, they’ll nod and smile and agree with you, but secretly they’ll be thinking ‘Oh My God, what’s wrong with her? She must be really unhappy.’ Because that’s what I think.”</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US">I did examine my conscience after this encounter – was I whistling too loudly? Is it really annoying? But also asking myself: did this person have any right to say this to me so aggressively? I decided in the end not to take it personally; here I’d encountered someone very unhappy, with who knows what terrible things happening in her life, to the extent that she thought it was OK to be vilely rude to a stranger.</span></div>
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LottiePhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15464376197679468718noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14447458.post-53989340497615695642014-04-30T17:54:00.002+08:002014-04-30T17:54:50.321+08:00Waxing lyrical<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span lang="EN-US">When I lived in Hong Kong I had a long-standing relationship with a woman from Beijing called Sarah, to whom I entirely handed all responsibility for care of my eyebrows, as well as the waxing of my legs (if you are ill-acquainted with what this actually means, I won't offend delicate sensibilities by describing it; just imagine the sounds RRRIIPPPP and OUCH). I went to see Sarah once every six weeks or so over a period of 5 or 6 years; she came via recommendation from a colleague and was in turn recommended by me to countless friends. She worked in a rather odd beauty salon on the 9<sup>th</sup> floor of a commercial block in Central that had seen better days.</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US">Considering its glossy rivals the salon itself was less than glamorous, with browning wallpaper decorated with random swatches of pot pourri, dinky ornaments strewn around the place and ancient peeling posters advertising long-unfashionable beauty treatments, owned by an eccentric woman who took an uncomfortably prurient interest in the treatments, often barging in to talk to and inspect the work of her staff when, by complete coincidence, their clients were in various states of undress and/or arrayed in the awkward postures required by the waxing process. The unprepossessing surroundings and nosy owner were the price to be paid for being looked after by Sarah, a lovely, happy person who always seemed pleased to see her clients and chattered away in an endearing mix of English and Chinese. We developed a friendship and it was always a pleasure to see her. I used to advise her that if she collected all the hair she’d taken from my body over the years (and I probably went to see her at least 40 times), she would be able to make herself a little coat with it. (This is a truly revolting image, I know, but how we laughed!)</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US">Since moving to Australia I’ve made some half-hearted attempts to find myself a new Sarah. It is a surprisingly intimate relationship however, and I’ve never felt comfortable with anyone else. Care of my eyebrows and the rest has, unfortunately, now passed to me and I look infinitely more shabby as a result.</span></div>
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LottiePhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15464376197679468718noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14447458.post-69361619962412809932014-04-18T10:15:00.000+08:002014-04-18T10:17:24.832+08:00Vicious cycle<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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some things you have to give up when you become a commuter cyclist, namely:<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<li><span lang="EN-US" style="text-indent: -18pt;"><span style="font-size: 7pt;"> </span></span><span lang="EN-US" style="text-indent: -18pt;">Your dignity (especially when it
rains): the words “high vis” and “elegance” would rarely appear in the same
sentence;</span></li>
<li><span lang="EN-US" style="text-indent: -18pt;"><span style="font-size: 7pt;"> </span></span><span lang="EN-US" style="text-indent: -18pt;">Any faith in the ability of car
drivers to</span></li>
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<span lang="EN-US">a)<span style="font-size: 7pt;"> </span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="EN-US">Drive;<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<!--[if !supportLists]--><span lang="EN-US">b)<span style="font-size: 7pt;"> </span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="EN-US">See anyone on a bike; <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<!--[if !supportLists]--><span lang="EN-US">c)<span style="font-size: 7pt;"> </span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="EN-US">Notice bike lanes; or<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<!--[if !supportLists]--><span lang="EN-US">d)<span style="font-size: 7pt;"> </span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="EN-US">Act sensibly when it’s raining.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US">Commuter drivers have already made a selfish
decision, which is to take up space on the roads into the city in their cars
with (in the overwhelming majority) only one person inside. Sitting inside
their cars with the music on, in their own little self-satisfied micro-world, impatient
at the lights, they seem to feel they are justified in taking any tiny shortcut
that will cut down the length of their journey at the expense of others. This
applies particularly to cyclists, against whom there seems to have been an
increase in aggression, for which Australian shock jocks like Alan Jones must take some of
the responsibility; but also, in their aggressive individualism, no driver
likes to see cyclists sailing past them, which unfortunately is the norm in
every city centre. My response to this is: every cyclist is one less car on the
road, making your journey to work that bit shorter than if I had chosen to
drive my car. You aren’t “stuck in traffic”, you ARE traffic. You are driving a
vehicle that can kill me. And would you like to explain to my two year old son
that you knocked me off my bike because you wanted to shave another two minutes
off your journey? I’m looking at you, yes you, eg the driver of the car with
the sticker on the back saying “DRIVE IT LIKE YOU STOLE IT”, who this morning
went illegally into the left hand lane ahead of me and sat waiting at the
lights, blocking the cycle path, in order to get an advantage over fellow
drivers at the lights by accelerating past them into the micro-feeder lane
(which certainly is not there for that purpose) at the other side of the
junction. I hope you got the shock of your life when your car fishtailed
alarmingly on the wet road. The cyclist in front of me, just a metre or so away
from being hit, certainly did.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<li><span style="text-indent: -18pt;">Sadly, some faith in fellow
cyclists. I have to bite back a comment (“this is why drivers don’t respect
us!”) when I see cyclists do all the things I know drivers hate:</span></li>
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<!--[if !supportLists]--><span lang="EN-US">c)<span style="font-size: 7pt;"> </span></span><!--[endif]--><span lang="EN-US">Ignoring the road rules.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US">The fact is, although arguably drivers are
collectively unreasonable anyway, and it makes no difference whether you follow
the rules or disobey them, I see every cyclist who flouts the road rules as
someone who is needlessly angering drivers and ultimately putting my life in
danger. For the record, I always follow stop signs. I always try to use hand
signals to show my intentions clearly in advance. I rarely go on the pavement
unless I’m accompanying a child under 7 – and yes, it is legal then. I wear a
bright white jacket and put my lights on. Yet I’ve been in situations where
I’ve been beeped at by impatient drivers (I’m in front of you, wait to see what
I am doing as you would with any vehicle) – or, frequently, almost side-swiped
by someone coming past way too close (as Ken Lay says: if you can’t leave a
metre between us, you are too close to pass).<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US">Having said
all that, my journey to work is mostly a delight: 30 minutes of cycling door to
door, along a dedicated cycle path by the railway for almost half the journey,
and then through Royal Park on a wide
road with plenty of space for everyone and usually enough time to get up some
speed and freewheel down the road enjoying the green-ness of everything.
Towards the end I have a few slightly hairy minutes at Flemington Roundabout (the
bike lane goes one way and I want to go another) and some close encounters
until I get to my office at the corner of Queen Street and Little Bourke; but
it’s generally been a pretty good experience and to my knowledge it’s the
fastest method door to door. If I’ve learned that the majority of drivers are
fools, and many cyclists are too, these are things that might save my life one
day.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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LottiePhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15464376197679468718noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14447458.post-17681754877490452602014-04-10T20:26:00.000+08:002014-04-10T20:44:41.382+08:00Flat out<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span lang="EN-US">In the
mid-1990s I was working at a small Scottish legal publisher in Edinburgh and
struck up a friendship with the PA to the Managing Director. L was smart, funny
and irreverent and we became close; I tried as much as I could to support her
as she went through a few major life changes: buying a flat in Bruntsfield,
splitting up with her boyfriend who had moved out, and finally losing her job
with the company I worked for.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US">I was going
through a few life changes of my own at the time: I’d split with my boyfriend
of four years, G, which entailed moving out of the flat we shared, a very much
un-mutual decision; I was trying to negotiate a move to the London office; a
new relationship was in its very early stages. My life was in flux, too. L needed help with her mortgage and had room in her flat; somehow a plan quickly
coalesced and I moved in with her.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US">The whole
experience was an utter disaster. Perhaps understandably, L was a very angry
and unhappy person at that time: she was upset about being made redundant, heartbroken
about her boyfriend, anxious about finding a new job and worried about money. She
made a disastrous pass at my ex when he came round to see me and I wasn’t
there; he ended up effectively being blackmailed into building a platform bed
for her (a baffling sequence of events
that I never quite got to the bottom of). She railed against the company and
her former boss. She hated having to have someone living with her under those
circumstances, and I was about the worst person possible: I had split with G
but there was a new man in the picture, who was phoning me late at night and
sending me flowers, and I still worked for the company she’d just left; I was
happy about my new relationship, had plans for the future, and was positive
about getting there. The atmosphere within her flat was poisonous and I couldn’t
wait to leave. I was stuck with paying the mortgage for my old flat with no
rent coming in and beholden to decision making in London about when I could
move to that office and what I would be doing there, so I had to stick it out. </span><br />
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<span lang="EN-US">Weirdly,
every time L and I bumped into each other outside that flat – even just down in
the street – we got along as well as ever and she was a totally different
person. Within the walls of her own flat, however, she was sullen, hostile, and
aggressive.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US">We avoided
each other as much as we could, but three particularly terrible episodes stick
in my mind from my time there (a matter of months, perhaps four months at the most, but otherwise an eternity).<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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</span></span><b style="text-indent: -18pt;"><span lang="EN-US">Cats’ feet are so delicate.</span></b><span lang="EN-US" style="text-indent: -18pt;"> I broke a wine glass in L’s kitchen
(plus ça change) and cleaned up as best as I could. Not well enough for L,
however, who left me the following note next to a tissue containing a few
remaining fragments she had managed to scrape up: “I found these. Be more
careful, the cat’s feet are delicate and you could have seriously hurt her”.</span></li>
<li><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: Symbol; text-indent: -18pt;">·<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt;">
</span></span><b style="text-indent: -18pt;"><span lang="EN-US">Spanish boys are all the same</span></b><span lang="EN-US" style="text-indent: -18pt;">.</span><span lang="EN-US" style="text-indent: -18pt;"> </span><span style="text-indent: -18pt;">In
September I went on a wonderful holiday to Barcelona and Madrid with my then-best
friend Rachael (about whom more some other time). My friend Campbell put me in
touch with his sister Jill, who lives in Madrid, and we spent two weeks being
escorted around by her friends; we stayed in Pablo’s flat in the centre of
Madrid and Jill, Pablo and Jaime drove us on excursions to hidden restaurants
and took us to their favourite tapas places. We gazed at Picassos and Miros in
the Reina Sofia Museum and attended a packed house party where we learned to
cook tortillas and got gloriously drunk on Cava. In Barcelona, we sat on the
beach in the sunshine and ate morcilla and blue cheese rolls from a little hole
in the wall cafe. Pablo gave us the keys to his flat as a parting gift. It was
a perfect holiday. Back in rainy Edinburgh, when Lucy asked me how the holiday
had been, I told her how kind the Spanish boys were to us and what a brilliant
time we’d had. Her response? “Oh they probably just wanted to shag you. I lived
in Spain, Spanish boys are all the same”. I went to work and cried.</span></li>
<li><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: Symbol; text-indent: -18pt;">·<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt;">
</span></span><b style="text-indent: -18pt;"><span lang="EN-US">I’ve hurt my back</span></b><span lang="EN-US" style="text-indent: -18pt;">. In an effort to ingratiate myself
with L, I decided to help her get rid of the enormous, mouldering pile of old
newspapers that sat in her hallway (at least 15 heavy bundles, most long
pre-dating me). I had hired a terrible little car for J’s visit from London and
after he had gone home, I humped every one of those bundles of newspapers from
her second floor flat to the ground floor, into the back of the little car and
off to the recycling centre at Bristo Square. L was at home while I was doing
it and I’d thought we could do it together, perhaps even bonding over the task.
But instead, she watched me coolly as I huffed and puffed and remarked “Oh, I
would help, but I’ve hurt my back”. Did she thank me for completing this
Herculean task? Did she hell.</span></li>
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afterwards I got confirmation of my move to London. I left L’s flat at the
earliest opportunity, departing for London and then Hong Kong. I’m still in
touch with everyone else in this story bar one; but from that day to this I have
never spoken to L again. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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LottiePhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15464376197679468718noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14447458.post-56549414322732724892013-11-26T18:23:00.001+08:002013-11-26T18:26:34.797+08:00Laughter and forgetting<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
I met Ali when we were both 13, when I started at a new school. She was in my class and stood out almost straight away (in my memory she has different coloured eyes, like David Bowie, but that might be a flawed recollection). I always knew Ali was a good person, although she had a temper and an an unpredictable wildness about her too: shouting at Gay Ray Jackson, the art teacher, refusing to take off her parka indoors, cheeking him relentlessly until he lost his silly temper, silly man, and stupidly dragged her across the changing room and she fell and hit her head (I smugly advised him "Physical violence is not the answer", for which intolerable insubordination I was damn lucky not to be sideswiped myself). Ali had a gleam in her eye, and was the first girl to wear stretch jeans when they became fashionable in the early 1980s: she looked better in them than anyone. I thought she was beautiful, skinny but strong, and she never seemed to care what anyone thought. She wanted to know what other people were thinking, and she didn't really see barriers the way other people did; she was friendly towards me, although when I was <a href="http://these-fragments.blogspot.com.au/2008/04/past-is-another-country.html">excommunicated </a>on a school trip to Switzerland by the two most popular girls in the class, the wave was too powerful to stand against and she was washed along like everyone else: she was a survivor as well. Never a great and steadfast friend of mine, then, but someone who I admired and who was funny and kind and probably, underneath, as confused as I was.<br />
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Ali left school earlier than the rest of us, because she could, and so she did, and drifted to the Highlands where she ended up marrying one of my brother's friends - someone who I still think of as a child, with no more recent memories to overlay the image; so perhaps that's why I find it almost impossible to visualise Ali's life during the 25 years since I last saw her, although I know she had one, with a marriage and children and a social circle.<br />
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My sister emailed me this morning to tell me that Ali died. I don't know how or why yet, but sitting at my desk at work properly thinking about her for the first time in years, and visualising her eyes and her smile and her slightly unkempt curls, I felt that sharp stab of loss which was, perhaps solipsistically, as much about me and my memories of the past as it was about her: the past remaking itself into a place where Ali will always be just as I remember her, beautiful and laughing.</div>
LottiePhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15464376197679468718noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14447458.post-56792190606740132422013-10-05T15:45:00.001+08:002013-10-05T16:10:29.667+08:00Hearts and minds<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
When I first saw a picture from <a href="http://www.marwencol.com/">Marwencol</a> I was so struck by it that I used it in a <a href="http://these-fragments.blogspot.com.au/2010/11/stuck-in-moment.html">post</a>. Incredibly, despite the attention it received and the awards it garnered, it never seemed to be available to rent or buy and it took almost three years since that post before it was available to download via Apple TV. We watched it last night and it was just as amazing as I had expected: a deeply personal and moving documentary about how someone recovering from severe brain injuries after a beating outside a pub creates his own little world based on 1940s Belgium, populates it with dolls and takes wonderful, naturalistic photographs of hundreds of little storylines he enacts with them., often apparently as a way of sublimating his feelings of anger, despair or lack of control. There is no ironic distance in his photographs: he is part of the world he has created and it is part of his. As a result the photographs he takes are like nothing else you've ever seen and a slightly sad story becomes meaningful and even beautiful. Highly recommended.</div>
LottiePhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15464376197679468718noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14447458.post-13675310816943080082013-10-02T19:26:00.001+08:002013-10-02T19:26:45.751+08:00In paradisum<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
It's a truism I'm sure, but since having a baby and because my child is a boy, I have become much more sensitive to depictions of terrible things happening to boys - so much so that, although I used to love horror movies, D and I couldn't bring ourselves to watch the whole of the recent horror movie <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sinister_(film)">Sinister </a>(and not, or not just, because Ethan Hawke's character is profoundly dislikeable), nor the documentary <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paradise_Lost:_The_Child_Murders_at_Robin_Hood_Hills">Paradise Lost</a> (about a terrible miscarriage of justice following child murders in West Memphis), just because children were depicted as being hurt (in the latter case, of course, they actually were hurt). My sister had mentioned this in respect of her two boys and I think I was sceptical; no more though, and I am officially a marshmallow when it comes to this kind of pain.<br />
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This weakness, if that is what it is, also holds true when it comes to things of beauty, and the sound of the voices of boy choristers now not only brings intimations of my childhood, and the forever lovely memory of my mum in the kitchen making mince pies on Christmas Eve with the pristine sweet sound of the <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Carols_from_King%27s#Service_at_King.27s_College.2C_Cambridge">Festival of Nine Lessons and Carols</a> on the radio: it also makes me think of the innocence of my beautiful boy. This movement from Faur<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Requiem_(Faur%C3%A9)" style="background-color: white; background-image: none; color: #0b0080; font-family: sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 19.1875px; text-decoration: none;" title="Requiem (Fauré)">é</a>'s Requiem is so pure it brings tears to the eyes.<br />
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LottiePhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15464376197679468718noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14447458.post-12248072107523411022013-09-13T10:39:00.003+08:002013-09-13T10:39:46.646+08:00Portrait of the artist<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Living, as I do, a very long way away from my family, I've become quite reliant on Skype to see them - Max has been getting to know his maternal grandparents mainly in pixels. My dad is something of a latecomer but has embraced it enthusiastically; so much so that he felt emboldened to remark to me recently "You look like you've been eating too many chocolates". It's purely by way of revenge for this, and for no other reason, that I now reveal that I was puzzled by his Skype photo which showed him from the side, looking into the near distance, and not particularly heroically.<br />
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When I asked him about it he said "Oh, it said 'put your profile photo here'". So he dutifully (and presumably with some difficulty) snapped a photo of his own profile and uploaded it.</div>
LottiePhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15464376197679468718noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14447458.post-74586577829646428272013-08-30T19:48:00.000+08:002013-08-30T19:49:52.945+08:00Blackberry Picking<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">for a full week, the blackberries would ripen.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">At first, just one, a glossy purple clot</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">among others, red, green, hard as a knot.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">You ate that first one and its flesh was sweet</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">like thickened wine: summer's blood was in it</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">leaving stains upon the tongue and lust for</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">picking. Then red ones inked up and that hunger</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">sent us out with milk-cans, pea-tins, jam-pots</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">where briars scratched and wet grass bleached our boots.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Round hayfields, cornfields and potato-drills</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">we trekked and picked until the cans were full,</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">until the tinkling bottom had been covered</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">with green ones, and on top big dark blobs burned</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">like a plate of eyes. Our hands were peppered</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">with thorn pricks, our palms sticky as Bluebeard's.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">We hoarded the fresh berries in the byre.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">But when the bath was filled we found a fur,</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">A rat-grey fungus, glutting on our cache.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">The juice was stinking too. Once off the bush</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">the fruit fermented, the sweet flesh would turn sour.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">I always felt like crying. It wasn't fair</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">that all the lovely canfuls smelt of rot.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Each year I hoped they'd keep, knew they would not.</span></div>
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LottiePhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15464376197679468718noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14447458.post-76709888559110153282013-08-12T13:22:00.001+08:002013-08-12T13:57:12.005+08:00As you lay in awe on the bedroom floor<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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I was very keen on the Smiths in my teens and bought every record. I plastered pictures of Morrissey, carefully cut from the NME, all over my bedroom door. I saw them live at the Edinburgh Playhouse in 1986, just before The Queen is Dead came out, and on the day of its release I went to Virgin in Princes Street, Edinburgh, to buy it. It had just been delivered and my copy came straight from the box – had it been unpacked they would have noticed it and claimed it for themselves because, as I realised when I examined it in Princes Street Gardens, heart bursting with excitement, my copy had been signed by Morrissey in gold pen. It’s hard to describe the elation I felt and this was my most treasured possession for a long time.<u></u><u></u></div>
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I left the UK for Hong Kong in January 2003 leaving behind the house I shared with J, which even then I instinctively knew I’d never enter again, although there was no set date on Hong Kong and I possibly thought we’d be back in the UK after two or three years. In the attic of that house in North London went all the books, clothes, records, personal papers and photographs for which there was no room in our two suitcases. From time to time I’d wake in the night and feel anxious about what was in the attic. What if the tenants raked through it? What if the house burnt down? </div>
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But ultimately I clearly didn’t care enough about any of it to go back to retrieve it on any of my visits to the UK and so there it all lay for nearly 10 years until the house was sold last year. I asked the estate agent to arrange for the stuff in the attic to be cleared out and put in storage – something that was surprisingly difficult to do from so many miles away since they wanted me to be there in person to sign for the storage unit. The man with a van the estate agent found said there was “a lot of rubbish” in the attic so I blithely gave him carte blanche to throw out anything that met that description. </div>
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What I should have done was specify what I did want to keep; because in a small cold storage unit in West London, courtesy of the kind and wholly last-minute emergency assistance of my former father-in-law, I found a lot of books I will never read, some I will, and very little else. Amongst the things that I know I’ll miss: hundreds of photographs from the days before digital; an old jewellery box full of adolescent treasures; all of my teenage diaries (read ‘em and weep!); a first pressing of <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tigermilk">Tigermilk </a>by Belle & Sebastian; and my signed copy of The Queen is Dead. And it’s nobody’s fault but my own.</div>
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LottiePhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15464376197679468718noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14447458.post-59112516499192528112013-08-09T12:09:00.003+08:002013-08-09T12:09:54.507+08:00Fuzzy fuzzy<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Gentle, mellow, lovely boys from Dunbar.<br />
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LottiePhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15464376197679468718noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14447458.post-3422626574985576632013-05-21T14:57:00.001+08:002013-05-22T19:36:36.920+08:00In a station of the metro<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
<dd style="background-color: white; font-family: sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 19.1875px; margin-bottom: 0.1em; margin-left: 1.6em; margin-right: 0px;">The apparition of these faces in the crowd;</dd><dd style="background-color: white; font-family: sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 19.1875px; margin-bottom: 0.1em; margin-left: 1.6em; margin-right: 0px;">Petals on a wet, black bough.</dd><dd style="background-color: white; font-family: sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 19.1875px; margin-bottom: 0.1em; margin-left: 1.6em; margin-right: 0px;"><i>— Ezra Pound</i></dd><br />
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Above: incredible art/architecture at Solne Metro Station, Stockholm. Picture from <a href="http://www.thecoolhunter.net/article/detail/2148/toledo-metro-station-naples--italy">The Cool Hunter</a>; follow the link for more.</div>
LottiePhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15464376197679468718noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14447458.post-41666997846789550232013-05-21T10:00:00.002+08:002013-05-21T10:00:40.624+08:00Barriers to entry<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
I've always been at best careless, at worst clumsy; since I got pregnant and had Max if anything it's become more pronounced, not least <a href="http://these-fragments.blogspot.com.au/2012/02/here-comes-fall.html">in public</a> (which at least serves the purpose of allowing random drunken strangers to go on about their drunken business feeling satisfied they've helped another human being in need).<br />
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We've put a barrier up between the kitchen and the rest of the house, consisting of one side of Max's now-obsolete wooden play pen (gone are the days when he would stay in it). The kitchen is home to all the really interesting/dangerous stuff that he'd love to get his hands on: drawers full of knives, cupboards full of bleach, the bin, the oven, the dishwasher - a cornucopia of delights for small hands. Unfortunately for me, the barrier is just a little bit too high to step over with ease, and I've now had two spectacular falls, in both instances caused by (1) laziness and (2) wearing the lovely furry baffies (slippers) my sister gave me for Christmas some years ago. Cosy though they are, as slippers, they live up to their name and both times the same disaster unfolded in slo-mo before D's helpless sight: I stepped carelessly across the barrier to the kitchen, not troubling to lift my back leg high enough to clear the barrier, the back slipper slipped, and I hit the ground full length and so rapidly I didn't even have time to outstretch a hand to break my fall.<br />
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To D this must have seemed like a combination of high slapstick and endlessly unspooling horror, particularly because both times I lay on the floor humiliated, winded and in some small amount of pain while Max, shocked by the crash and bang and the fact that Mummy was now horizontal on the floor moaning unpleasantly, screamed in fright and stood on the other side of the barrier anxiously.<br />
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The second time, my flailing foot caught one of the slats and knocked it clean out and the bowl of sardine surprise I was carrying (after Max had refused to eat most of it) fell on the floor first, in exactly the place my face then subsequently landed.<br />
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I now have a large purple bruise on my thigh, about the size of a cauliflower and not dissimilar in texture, and a thoroughly chastened attitude.<br />
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LottiePhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15464376197679468718noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14447458.post-61729802382001190192013-04-26T13:15:00.001+08:002013-04-26T13:15:46.654+08:00Snow<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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LottiePhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15464376197679468718noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14447458.post-27381989589933434902013-04-07T15:34:00.004+08:002013-04-07T17:53:10.831+08:00It's a shame about Ray<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
For any fan of Scottish music in the last few years of the twentieth century, a job at the recording studio in my village would have been a dream. Who wouldn't have wanted to be sitting in reception as Edwyn Collins walked by on the way to record "In a Nutshell"? It could just as well have been <a href="http://www.krankies.com/#/home/4515361521">The Krankies</a> on their way to "lay down" their immortal (and unofficial, by which I mean there is no trace of it in the official archives and no other mention of it anywhere on the internet) 1982 Scotland World Cup song ("We're goin' tae Spain/Oan an aery-plane"), but the indie glamour was still all there.<br />
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Because it's a tiny village I don't think the the owner realised that there were any hiring choices, and he took on a village boy - let's call him Raymond - who was less than enthused by his new career and behaved with slovenly disregard for his employer. Efforts to get him to be politer, and to do, er, his job, were meant with mutinous silence. Eventually he was given notice and told he was not working out in the role. After a silence, he responded slowly: "Aye. It cuts both ways, ken."<br />
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LottiePhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15464376197679468718noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14447458.post-607670024785587312013-04-06T11:54:00.000+08:002013-04-06T11:54:25.146+08:00Words to live by<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;">“I believe that if, at the end of it all, according to our abilities, we have done something to make others a little happier, and something to make ourselves a little happier, that is about the best we can do. To make others less happy is a crime. To make ourselves unhappy is where all crime starts. We must try to contribute joy to the world. That is true no matter what our problems, our health, our circumstances. We must try. I didn't always know this and am happy I lived long enough to find it out."</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;"><b>Roger Ebert</b> 1942 - 2013</span></div>
LottiePhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15464376197679468718noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14447458.post-48461313245909040032013-03-31T16:57:00.001+08:002013-03-31T16:57:39.791+08:00The moment you know<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Even though not every song on the new album really works. Even though the "idea" for the cover could have been envisioned - and then rejected - by a 10 year old and should have stayed on the drawing board. Because it was a surprise. Because I've always loved David Bowie's music, in every phase of my life. Because his German accent is rubbish. Because he makes the banal sound profound. Because this is quite beautiful and perfectly sad.</div>
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LottiePhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15464376197679468718noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14447458.post-13454240214699158762013-03-30T21:06:00.000+08:002013-03-30T21:06:30.919+08:00A little green<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Some beautiful green things, from my collection on <a href="https://svpply.com/charlottep/collections/6990/A_little_green">Svpply</a>:<br />
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[Dress, <a href="http://www.lagarconne.com/store/index.htm">La Garconne</a>; Chair, <a href="http://www.crateandbarrel.com/furniture/chairs/1">Crate and Barrel</a>; Ring, Dannijo from <a href="http://www.my-wardrobe.com/">My Wardrobe</a>; Sandals, Gucci; 60 cm Kilo TT from <a href="http://velospace.org/node/13843">Velospace</a>]</div>
LottiePhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15464376197679468718noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14447458.post-20199871740016712832013-03-29T20:06:00.001+08:002013-03-29T20:14:27.678+08:00My word is my bond<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
We are just about to move house, and once again I'm thinking about that most peculiar of Australian customs, the bond. I've rented for the last 11 years since leaving the UK, and before that I'd rented in Edinburgh, Glasgow and London, but never before had I encountered the terror of the bond - a deposit which you get back only once the real estate agent is completely satisfied that the house is exactly as you found it when you moved in. In practice this means several things:<br />
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<li>It doesn't matter what the house was like when you moved in. Especially if you have no documentary evidence of what it looked like. In Sydney, for example, we moved in after the owner had moved out - no bond, therefore no obligation to clean, so the place was filthy. When you move out, it has to be as if no one has ever lived there and it's been scoured from top to bottom twice daily. Even if you've actually taken this approach, however,</li>
<li>It doesn't matter how much you do - to the estate agent this is a revenue stream. D's brother got bond deducted for leaving two coathangers in the wardrobe. When we left Sydney we got bond deducted for leaving cleaning products under the sink. In short, they'll find a reason. But the real kicker is that:</li>
<li>They don't actually deduct from your bond, because this would affect your ability to rent a new place and might mean that you are annoyed enough to contest it and/or report the agent. They tell you to pay them direct and then they won't deduct from your bond. And,</li>
<li>The amounts involved are at a certain level too - low enough to mean most tenants won't complain, but not so low as to be negligible - let's say $240 out of a $2,000 bond.</li>
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In other words it's a scam, carried out under the radar and perpetrated against vulnerable tenants from someone in a position of great power with control over your money. When I first moved to Australia D insisted we photograph everything in the new flat and check against the extremely detailed inventory. I thought this was a bit over the top, with all the laissez faire experiences under my belt. How wrong I was.</div>
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